my family is in complete chaos. my 17 yo son began dating a Hindu girl in feb. he never went out before that. she has BPD cuts has suicidal thoughts herself is bisexual.
now my son is doing the same and is also filled with rage towards me mostly. I'm to the point that I record all our conversations. he says I'm his birthing person not his mom
he says he's hated me since MS and that my rules got him bullied.
we have him counseling. we've had to take him to the pysch er twice, called 911 once
unfortunately, my husband and I are not on the same page with how to deal with this from day one…I wanted to forbid him from dating her after reading messages. (in addition, her mom would text him and calls him so )
now my husband has a job offer in TN and wants to take it but for us to stay in pa for a year so my son can graduate from HS.
I don't want to split up the family plus it would get him away from her.
my priest believes there are demonic forces at work . has blessed our house.
I say all of this to ask for prayers. I'm literally am scared to death